Our latest question is from James who writes “Can all women have multiple orgasms? Mine says she is satisfied after one clitoral climax and is too sensitive for any more touching.” July 2005 – James Dear James, In my experience all women are capable of multiple orgasms and continuous orgasms, (there is a difference by [...]
Question From A Reader: Dear Thundercat, Greetings and best wishes to you this day. Thank you for your advice. Please I need your assistance because I know I have a problem to get a woman of my choice. I have money and I address fine but any woman that comes to me will hate me, [...]
I get lots of letters about all sorts of dating, sex and relationship problems every day. It’s interesting that they so often fall into clearly defined categories. One of the most common comes from women that follow various prescribed paths only to find that they prevent or destroy their relationships. The majority of these paths [...]
Doc: I met this girl about 2 months ago in a college class. She actually seemed to show interest in me. I don’t know what her intentions were. She began by smiling at me in the library one day. Then she started to sit next to me sometimes and would make conversation with me in [...]
Dear Dr. Neder, I have a social issue. Ever since I was a kid, I was always very friendly, outgoing, sociable, charming, positive, and likable. In addition, I was never shy, but as I approached my teens, I became reclusive and reserved. It was also at that time when my self-esteem severely affected my social [...]
Hey Doc! First off, I’m 21 and I stay near a pretty small town that’s big enough for a WalMart but the only “mall” in town has maybe 8 stores in it. Yeah, it’s THAT small. I got a girl’s number a while back. We’ve only had maybe two real conversations during the last semester [...]
Dr. Neder, I’m 35 and started dating after a year-long hiatus earlier this year. I’ve gone out with a couple of guys so far, all of them younger. I’ve noticed that they LOVE texting, but rarely ask me out. The latest guy is 29, and we went on our first date last Friday. We had [...]
Hey Dr. Dennis – Hi and thank you for your help! I am single and I have been for 2 years. I’m a 30-year old woman with 2 part-time kids. I am attractive (though somewhat overweight), intelligent and I like to think I’m good company. Recently, I have had some pretty bad luck in re-entering [...]
Doc: I have a question about girls that play “hard to get”. I know you tell guys (and girls) not to play this game, but I’ve read other articles that say that girls should do this. What’s your take on that? Thanks! Incoming search terms:men who dont make an effort datingbirdmandc19/youtubewhy do girls play dumbMan [...]
I’m in a long-distance relationship at the moment. I love my boyfriend very much, and the relationship is good. Recently I met someone and things kicked off really fast between the two of us. We are really interested in each other. It feels as if we’ve known each other for years. We are comfortable with [...]
Reading one of your older columns today, I came across this. “All the pain in this world is caused by unhappy, thwarted, frustrated people. Happy people don’t hurt other people. They enrich the planet and bring fulfillment to others.” While I like to think I’m one of the happy people bringing fulfillment to others, I [...]
I am a 34-year-old, single, college-educated woman, but honestly I feel clueless when it comes to love. I’ve had lots of relationships that last six months. That’s the time men start professing their love, and I find a reason to run. I had one relationship that lasted five years, mainly because he was a professional [...]
My name is Jessica. I am 25 and my boss is 47. I was wondering if it is inappropriate for me to have a personal, friendship-level relationship with him. My boss says he is there if I need him, and he almost always is. He e-mails me electronic greeting cards for every occasion. We often [...]
I’m a 19 year old guy studying at college in the UK and there is a girl who I’ve seen around, mainly in the library. I would like to approach her but have no clue what to say and I’m afraid she might laugh at me for trying to speak to her. I have no [...]
Doc, you gotta help me! I’m a 19 year old male, single and I haven’t dated much. I’ve only been in one relationship and am now looking for a woman to be with and I just don’t know where to look or even how to approach someone. My female cousins say to go to the [...]
