Attracting women is not necessarily a difficult thing. However, if you do everything right, but one thing wrong, you will kill the attraction dead. Attraction is a “true-false” deal, not a “multiple choice” – 100% is an “A,” 99% is an “F.” Most men understand on some level that if you want to create initial [...]
Guys are constantly wondering, what is ‘the secret’ to turning a platonic friend to be your girlfriend? Look around and you can see it happening all the time; well-meaning, good and caring guys with the best intentions in the world for a girl he likes, but somehow ends up being placed in the ‘friend zone’ [...]
A lot of guys aren’t really sure WHERE TO GO to meet Asian women. Let’s face it, a lot of the high-quality girls aren’t found in the bars and nightclubs…and certainly not the girls who are the “shy type” (which does describe a fairly large percentage of Asian women), or are busy with their studies. [...]
Let me tell you about a line I used to pickup this hot, 21 year old blonde off MySpace a few nights ago… Start off by saying… “Hey! I think we met each other the other night…” She’ll probably respond with something like… “Ummm, I don’t think so. Who are you?” You know, the typical [...]
Before you go out of the house, you fix your hair, put on your make-up, spray some sweet smelling perfume… then go back in the mirror again and double check your make up and your hair. You need perfection before going out of the house. Who knows? You might run into someone you like. And [...]
How would YOU like to give EVERYONE you meet – friends, colleagues, potential boyfriends – a first impression they’ll never forget? Wouldn’t it be great to naturally win just about anyone over because of your awesome personality? Well, don’t pay any mind to your inner naysayer…these qualities are already in you, and NOW is the [...]
I’m always looking to meet beautiful new Asian girls, and I don’t limit my “intros” to when I’m at the bars and nightclubs. You’ll actually meet some of the BEST Asian girls during the daytime — and yet 95% of men have NO GAME when it comes to approaching random girls while the sun is [...]
Very often, we may be interested in a man but we are not quite sure if the feeling is mutual. Sometimes men send mixed signals. They flirt with you, pay you compliments and are genuinely nice to you. But then when he isn’t really taking any other steps to get to know you, you start [...]
What do you do when the guy that you like never calls but sends you a text when he wants to ask you out on a date or talk to you? If you have no problem with this as a sole or primary method of communication with the guy you are dating or seeing, then [...]
Are you frustrated that your relationship doesn’t have the magic and romance that it once had? Scared this may affect or eventually end your relationship? You’re not alone. Living with the same partner for a long time can become stable and comfortable, and, as a result, can make things stale and lose the spark that [...]
Many people think that there is no recipe: things happen in life in a totally different way for everyone and you cannot follow a sure path that will guarantee that you will be happy with the person you love. Of course there is not an exact formula for happiness that you could follow, but if [...]
Dr. Neder, I’m 35 and started dating after a year-long hiatus earlier this year. I’ve gone out with a couple of guys so far, all of them younger. I’ve noticed that they LOVE texting, but rarely ask me out. The latest guy is 29, and we went on our first date last Friday. We had [...]
Hey Dr. Dennis – Hi and thank you for your help! I am single and I have been for 2 years. I’m a 30-year old woman with 2 part-time kids. I am attractive (though somewhat overweight), intelligent and I like to think I’m good company. Recently, I have had some pretty bad luck in re-entering [...]
By golly, you’ve actually met a woman. Maybe you’re in bar. Maybe you’re at the gym or laundromat. Maybe she’s someone you know from work. Or maybe, even, you’re actually out on a date. In any event, now you’ve got to do something scary, something unpredictable, something with the power to launch a future romantic [...]
At a recent singles dance we invited people to fill out short questionnaires on various singles issues. One questionnaire focused on attitudes and experiences about meeting people. Nearly an equal portion (70% of the men and 63% of women) had placed a personal ad. Of those surveyed, including those who had not run an ad, [...]
