How many of us are dissatisfied with our sex lives? Quite a plentitude of people want more or have trouble getting there because their lovers are finished before they have even started, or worse that they finish right when she’s just warming up. As much as we would like to, we can’t just lay blame [...]
At my very first post-college, grown-up job, one of our Vice Presidents was sleeping with our Chairman. This was common knowledge at the firm, and the frequent subject of water-cooler, lunchroom and bathroom gossip, especially when their alibis were comically unrealistic, or worse, when either of their spouses popped in for a surprise visit. The [...]
Loves mysteries in soules does grow. –John Donne I have been thinking about soulmates a lot lately. Recently a fellow relationship coach told me the story of Heather, a woman in her early 40′s. She has never married, though she has had several lengthy relationships over the years. Then late last year she met Andrew. [...]
“Celebration,” according to dictionary.com, means, “To observe an occasion with appropriate ceremony or festivity.” When we first begin a relationship with someone, we celebrate him or her constantly. Every time the phone rings, our heart jumps with joyous celebration. A night or day on the town with them becomes a celebration of time well invested. [...]
Have you always wondered why do kids resist their parents even though they have their interests at heart? This happens to me when I am young. I find that I am attracted towards my friends and buddies in schools than towards my mentors, teachers or even my parents. I never really explored the reasons why, [...]
Its obvious online affairs are prevalent today so what can you do about them? This epidemic is causing the breakup of countless marriages. How do you know if your spouse is violating the marriage vows by carrying out an online affair? Let’s look at typical indicators I personally discovered while investigating affairs. If your marriage [...]
It’s normal that after spending years as a couple, your sex life becomes a little stale. The urge to do it with your lover has reached its plateau. Sex has become a part of the chores. Those sizzling, sweltering, tantric, sex has somehow become the thing of the past. Although there is no question about [...]
Are you struggling with letting go of a past love? We all know how painful it can be when walking away from a relationship. You may be dealing with feelings that can be overwhelming and at times you need a bit of guidance to help keep you on track. As difficult as it may be [...]
The quest for beauty, age defiance and physical enhancement are at an all time high. The beauty industry, comprised of simple salons to mega-corporate giants, pulls in billions of dollars annually. People are obsessed with making themselves beautiful and more attractive for their own personal satisfaction and so others can see them they want to [...]
Not all men are slobs. In fact, many men enjoy a clean home just as much as women do. When you are planning to have a woman over either before or after your date you will want to make sure your home is more than clean. You want to create an atmosphere that fosters romance. [...]
I’m a sucker for romance. I love movies where boy meets girl, boy loses girl and, against all odds, they find their way back to each other. Or films about star-crossed lovers, as in Bridges of Madison County, who return to their separate lives forever changed. In real life, though, I have learned to be [...]
Sometimes when you want something to be true, it’s easy to over-analysis every detail or instance and wonder if perhaps your ex really wants you back. You have to be careful you don’t fall into this trap. Your ex might still have feelings for you, but not necessarrily do they want you back. So how [...]
Have you ever thought WHY men’s and women’s sexual strategies are so different? Why men want sex and women want love? Why there are NO books teaching women how to get one-night stands? Why women complain about men not loving them enough – but refusing to make love? If you’ve ever been frustrated with the [...]
Before I begin, I would like to first point out that throughout this article I will be using “he” and “him”, etc, rather than awkwardly saying “he or she” or using “he/she”. So please understand I do not mean this as slight to women. Many of my readers have often asked me, “How can I [...]
How many dates does it take to make a decision about whether or not you want to pursue a relationship? I’ve always been curious about this aspect of dating, because very few women have comparable experiences. With some dates, the knowledge is immediate and instinctual. With other dates, months may pass before the endearing nature [...]
