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By Astrid EngelsThere’s really only one thing that you need to remember about ordering wine; it should taste wonderful! It’s really that simple. It’s too bad that for a lot of people the simple act of ordering wine is an ordeal, which can take most of the enjoyment out of drinking it.

Don’t pretend to know when you don’t. There’s no reason in the world why you have to know about wine. Chances are, you know about all sorts of interesting things! So if your wine education isn’t what you think it should be, don’t pretend to be an expert. It’s obnoxious and it’s incredibly transparent.

Even if you do know about wines, consider yourself an expert, and know just what to order to go with the chicken cordon bleu, do ask your date about his or her first choice. Something like “I’ve had the 2002 Santa Margretha before and it goes beautifully with chicken; shall I go ahead and order some?” is perfectly okay.

Know what you like. Even if you like wine in general, it’s common to feel a little awkward when it’s time to choose something for somebody else. However, if you have a good idea of what you like, it becomes so much easier. Spend some time buying and drinking wine at home, and develop an idea of some of the countries or regions of wine you might like, or at least the grapes. If you know a few types of red and a few types of white you always like, you’ll always be prepared.

Don’t spend too much. I’ve read a lot of advice online that says not to spend too little when you order a bottle of wine. As a woman who is unimpressed by spendy men, I think that’s a little silly (though I’m sure other people don’t feel that way). I think it’s best if you try not to spend too much. If you don’t want to get the cheapest bottle on the menu, it’s okay to go up a few price levels. But if the wine costs more than the meal, your date will probably be more uncomfortable than impressed.

Though a lot of people will turn their noses up at the house wine thinking that it makes them look a bit tight fisted, I’m certainly not one of them. Just remember to see if that choice suits your date. “I’m no expert, so how about splitting some house wine?” will make you look relaxed, comfortable and confident.

There’s nothing wrong with asking for a bit of help; after all, that’s what the waiter is there for. Most good restaurants will make sure that their staff knows which wines are suitable for the dishes they serve. “We’re planning to order the seafood pasta, can you suggest a good white wine to accompany that?” will make you look poised and full of self confidence, yet not afraid to ask for help when needed.

So stop worrying about impressing your date with your wine knowledge or the lack thereof. If you’re uptight about the whole process, your date will sense it and neither of you will be relaxed enough to enjoy yourselves. So take your time and sip slowly. Life’s too short not to enjoy the sensual pleasure of a good bottle of wine.About the Author:This article was developed by the staff of the Datepad.com internet dating company where you can read thousands more helpful dating articles.

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